With the soft job market and the challenge of selling a house in this economy, commuter marriages--both welcome and not so welcome--are on the rise. Unfortunately, "the people who are forced into it [often] struggle with it," says Tina B. Tessina, PhD, psychotherapist and author of The Commuter Marriage: Keep Your Relationship Close While You’re Far Apart. "It's been tough, but what I tell people is, 'You do what you have to do.' I don't have the option to break down and say, 'This is too hard to do.'"






